NEW AGE RELATIONSHIPS.

Well, having a relationship in coronavirus is like having a long-distance relationship because if you live in the same area also you can’t meet and long-distance relationships aren’t for everyone or in other words for some people it sucks, one of the reason is that you don’t get to see each other, I heard in a movie,

We need that touch from the one we love, almost as much as we need air to breathe. But I never understood the importance of touch. His touch. Until I couldn't have it.' - Stella (Five Feet Apart)

But since we have many types of people for some people long-distance works, it is more like they can make it work, nothing is impossible if one wants that so badly.

Some couples are there who don’t have a problem with this quarantine thing maybe they are living together, well in the case of teenage relationships that’s not possible at least not in this country, the main problem that teenage relationship might have is ‘Netflix’ or ‘Hollywood movies’ these two have made us imagine what we can't have, in the shows, it's just so easy for having a relationship and it looks cool for some viewers and that makes many people think to have a relationship and that becomes their need not something they like to be in but what they want to make them cool. Well, it is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend is their primary goal.

Teenage relationships aren’t based on love, well in some cases they may be but in some its Meir out of attraction and as we all know attraction goes away after a time and that’s why maybe we see break up and patch up with a new partner so easily. It is not wrong, teenage is the age of mistakes if you don’t make mistakes you don’t learn but that doesn’t mean you intentionally make mistakes.

Love is a complex set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person.

We get into the relationship sometimes to let go the loneliness within us, to assure us we aren’t alone, to make us believe someone can like us, this type of relationships often ends up soon because in this type of relationship they are in for themselves it is their selfish reasons and relationships aren’t for one person it is more like having two persons coming together to make each other more happy, one should be happy already before being in the relationship otherwise it won’t work out as one expects it to.

But in some cases some people are able to find their partner, soulmate or their love of their life in teenage and they actually make it to the future, well this type of people exists and as I would say they are lucky or can say very lucky. Or we just might say they choose each other not because they needed to show someone or it was a long time being single.

"Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaho , to puri kainaat usse tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai" - Om Shanti Om

This is a line that many singles have read their whole life and shouted on the writer because they couldn’t get what they wanted and according to them, you know what a person cant make out his mistakes until unless someone points it out and that’s the same thing applied here because people think they want it by all their heart but sadly they just don’t want it by all their heart otherwise they would have tried longer to get him/her.

You want to be in a relationship well you must be, no one is stopping you, no one is forcing you either, and don’t you even wait for you getting ready for it because you are never going to be ready for it, like never. 

Just choose the right relationship to be in because some relationship are also toxic, who said there was no evil in good, and those toxic relationships might just ruin you and you might not willing to go in any other relationship. Choose wisely and even if you are in one which you think is toxic for you then you might want to leave that now.

Nowadays the relationship is more social then it should be, if you are in a relationship with someone then its not necessary to show every detail to everyone because you know what not everyone cares to see if you are girlfriend calls you ‘shona’ and not everyone cares to see how much she spends on you or you spent on her, the relationship would still work the other way around and maybe better.

Express them how much you love them and how much you love the relationship rather than expressing to some stupid people.

Technology has been a great benefit for people in relationships but they might be some wrong use as well like having a tracker okay wait that’s what parents do and it would be better if you leave that for them only, instead of doing that why don’t you trust each other and share each and everything that would be much better.

When the GPS wasn’t there in our mom's dad's time people still had love and relationships and you know what they had better relationships.

If you are single. Well you know what there is different fun in being a single as you more options to flirt with and be like open and the irony of life is some people in relationships envy singles and some singles envy people in relationships well that’s how is it and sadly it can't be changed.

In case you wondering how to know you got the right one well then here’s it,

“with someone you smile with desire, with strength, and with enthusiasm. Anyone who makes you forget everything negative that was on your mind that day. With whom your mind and heart are at peace.” I think then that’s the one for you. If you find one like that don’t let it go, as you might not find them again.

Love is like a free bird and humans are like a tree for them a place to rest they can make their home their or fly away if you find that bird, feed him, fulfill its needs and do all the things you can do to make them stay and then see how they make you happy and how they make you feel like you are in heaven even though you are on earth.

-Akhil.